Thursday, 21 October 2010

I'll Never Forget

by Ashley Williams
I'll never forget the times we shared
And all the hardships we spared

The memories are forever lasting
In my heart buried with a golden casting

Ice pops, volleyball, and marry me ring pop
All important to me but I never realized to stop

I should have told you exactly how I felt
Every time you looked at me you made my heart melt

When I see you driving and cruising by
It makes me turn away and cry

Now I've completely lost you due to my non understanding parent
They'll never realize what they put in me rust, holes and dents

They didn't think twice and tore our love in half
If they only could have seen the way you make me laugh

It was you that made me happy, energetic and full of life
Now there's been an incision made with a sharp knife

I want things back to the way they used to be
Just the two of us you and me

I want us together so damn bad
It makes me full of anger and deeply mad

Please let there be one day we'll happily be together
Forever alone with just one another

The Pain Inside Me

by ~SeCrEtLy~wAiTiNg~
I write poetry to soothe my pain
Because all the world just seems the same
This twisting, burning, breaking
All because of one little game

What you said to me.
How you hurt me so.
The cut is just too deep.
Deepness scereing into my heart.

I want to know why...
This pain inside me,
Just will not stop.
The burning, breaking pain.

The cut you left is hard to heal
And i cant seem to stop the bleeding.
I hope you are happy now.
With the pain you made me feel.

Empty


by Fatin Hamamah
I used to love so much before
he's the one that i adore
but the ending,
is not what I've been expected for
knock! Knock! on the door
my heart won't open anymore.

I've groans and moans after all these years
I've to runaway from all those fears
hide my face away from my tears
its hurt so much to be this sincere

i tried to cover up all my pain
all i feel is much the same
for this emptiness running through my vein
cause me to live forever in vain

Friday, 15 October 2010

Amr Diab Allah Ala Hobak Enta عمرو دياب الله على حبك انت 2009

 
 
Allah 3ala 7obak enta
(Oh my God your love is beautiful)
maba7ebesh 3'erak enta
(I don't love anyone but you)
w edonia 3andy enta
(And the world is you for me)
w edonia 3aleek shwaya
(And the world isn't enough for you)

Allah 3ala 7obak enta
(Oh my God your love is beautiful)
maba7ebesh 3'erak enta
(I don't love anyone but you)
w edonia 3andy enta
(And the world is you for me)
w edonia 3aleek shwaya
(And the world isn't enough for you)


de7ket 3enak l3eny
(the smile of your eye to mine)
allah allah ya 3eny
(Oh my god, Oh my god it is beautiful)
men youm mashafetha 3eny
(Since the day my eye has seen her)
belf eldonia beya
(The world is spinning around me)

wa5ed 2alby b7anano
(Taking my heart with his love)
w ma7adesh 5ad makano
(And noone took his place)
w el sho2 w el 7ob bano
(And the passion and love has appeared)
fi elela el7elwa deya
(in that beautiful night)

Allah 3ala 7obak enta
(Oh my God your love is beautiful)
maba7ebesh 3'erak enta
(I don't love anyone but you)
w edonia 3andy enta
(And the world is you for me)
w edonia 3aleek shwaya
(And the world isn't enough for you)


3ashe2 soto w kalamo
(In love wit his voice and his worlds_
3ayesh 3ala a7lamo
(Living on his dreams)
ma3rafsh leeh 2odamo
(I don't know why in front of him)
belf eldonia beya
(The world is spinning around me)

Allah 3ala 7obak enta
(Oh my God your love is beautiful)
maba7ebesh 3'erak enta
(I don't love anyone but you)
w edonia 3andy enta
(And the world is you for me)
w edonia 3aleek shwaya
(And the world isn't enough for you)


de7ket 3enak l3eny
(the smile of your eye to mine)
allah allah ya 3eny
(Oh my god, Oh my god it is beautiful)
men youm mashafetha 3eny
(Since the day my eye has seen her)
belf eldonia beya
(The world is spinning around me)

Elissa Tesada Bemeen . English Translationاليسا تصدق بمين أوريجينال

 

tesada2 bemin?
Who Do You Believe In


b3edna w yadoub ma3adash youmen
we parted and barely two days have passed

w getlak 2awam w la2etak wa7eshny wa7shet snin
I came to you yo find I had missed you like years had gone by


tesada2 bemin?
Who do you believe in...

ana w alby kona mosh daryanin
my heart and I were unaware

mnen geena wala fen ro7na wala e7na shofna min
Where we had come from or gone to, or whom we had seen

tesada2 bemin
Who do you belive in

be mit alf 7aga mabena
There are a hundred thousand things between us...

mosh 7aga aw 7agten
not just one or two

w law nensa ba3d ana w enta men ba3d nrou7 feen
And if... we forget each other, you and I , where do we go to

da ana w kaman enta ana
For I am you and you are me,

w ka2enena wa7ed w kol el nas tendahlo b2esmen
as if we are one ,one that people call by two names

ma5abish 3alek
I tell you the truth;

da law youm ye3adi w ana w ben idek
every day that goes by with me in your arms

ysawi fe 3enaya 3a donya deya kaman donyeten
Is in my eyes the world and twice more

ma5abish 3alek
I tell you the truth;

maba7lamsh 3omry gher bas bik w wala ab2a ella lik
I never dream of anyone but you

w law de3t meny amout mareten
Yours I shall remain and if I lose you I will die twice

tesada2 bemin
Who Do You Believe In ?


بعدنا و يا دوب معداش يومين
و جتلك قوام لقيتك وحشنى وحشه سنين
تصدق بمين
انا و قلبى كنا مش دراينين
منين جينا ولا فين روحنا ولا احنا شوفنا مين
تصدق بمين
بميت الف حاجه ما بينا
مش حاجه او حاجتين
ولو ننسا بعض انا وانت من بعض نروح فين
ده انا انت و كمان انت انا
و كاننا واحد و كل الناس تندهله اتنين
مخبيش عليك
ده لو يوم يعدى و انا وبين اديك
يساوى فى عينيا على الدنيا ديه كمان دنيتين
مخبيش عليك
مبحلمش عمرى غير بس بيك و لا ابقى الا ليك
و لو ضعت منى اموت مرتيين

Ana Gambek | Tamer Hosny | Tamerstar.com




انتى مش قلتى الصراحة
didn't you say the truth ??

ومخبتيش
and you didn't hide anything

يبقى متخافيش
so don't be afraid

وانا عليا انى اسامح واكمل ولا ماسمحكيش
and it's up to me to forgive you or not

وعارف ممكن تكونى زعلانة
and i know that you maybe sad

عشان حاسة ان انا ممكن اكون اتضايقت لما حاكيتى كل ماضيكى
because you Thought that i will be bothored when you told me about your past

انا بحبك زى مانتى اوعى فى يوم تكونى زعلانة
i love you as you are don't ever be sad

مش فارق عندى حاجة فى كل ماضيكى
it doesn't matter what happen in your past

انا جنبك يعنى متخافيش
don't be afraid because i'm next to you

لو غبتى عنى مش عايز اعيش
if you left i don't want to live

معذورة لسه متعرفيش
it's ok because you don't know

انتى عندى ايه
how much you mean to me

وحياتى عندك ماتدمعيش
please i beg you don't cry

دى الناس كلها تتمنى تعيش
all these people wish to live

تحت امرك
under your rules

ياللى مفيش زيك فى الحياة
there's no one like you

ايه يعنى عدت عليكى ظروف
it's ok if you were under a difficult situation

عادى انك تقابلى ناس فى الحياة ميستاهلوش
it's ok if you met people don't Deserve you

واللى يعيش ياما يشوف
and as long as you are living as long as you are going to see
(<< it's proverb that means if you live a lot you will see alot so don't be Surprise)

ياما يشوف .. ياما يشوف
as long as you are going to see

Thursday, 14 October 2010

Funny?

I have pray so long time to have a Quran.Maybe Allah have listen me and un friend maked me a big gift..my first arabic Quran.Where is the funny?After this another friend maked me the same gift.Now i have 2 Quran.Alhamdu Allah.

Jamal Malik

صحوت من النوم فزعا بعد غفوة صغيرة
لا أدري كم مر من الوقت كنت مستيقظا قبلها
يقف بجانبي حتي ألملم حاجياتي في حقيبة
لنزول الي الشارع بعد امضاء ليلة
في غرفة منعدمة الإضاءة

ازداد الصباح جمالا مع انسياب أغنية
ترددها فيروز ماسك حقيبتي لخراج الكتاب
وقلم لدون بعض الاشياء التي تلامسني
في محاولة للتغلب علي ذاكرتي الضعيفة
أستكمل قراءتي متجاهلا نظرات الاستعجاب
المصحوبة بهمهمات وتعجب من حولي

مع خروجي من السيارة يرتطم أنفي
بأحد عملا لـ إف بي اي
رافع أشارتة في وجهي
( صديق يرتدي قميص كتب علية لن نصمت .ليس هناك
مشكلة في العبارة بل لماذا كتبت بالعربية)
تم اخذنا وربطوا عيوننا
سرنا مسافة طويلة
قيل لي فيما بعد أنها لا تزيد عن مئة متر
ولكني أراهن أنها تزيد عن الكيلو متر
وأدخلونا على شخصية لابد أنها خطيرة
ونزعوا الرباط عن عيني سألني بكل حنان
عن شخصية معروفة عند الجميع
مارايك فية. لـ ارد على الفور لا اعرفة.

( سمعت احدهم يقول ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال من قال أعوذ بكلمات الله التامة من غضبه
وعقابه ، ومن شر عباده ومن شر همزات الشياطين ومايمكرون. لم يصبه مكروه في يومه وليلته )
وأنا قلتها عشرة بل وكثر وانا ابحث عن مخرج ولم اجده بعد.

Saturday, 2 October 2010

Trecere de toamna

de Carl Sandburg 

Am plans la capataiul lucrurilor frumoase , stiind ca nimic frumos nu dureaza.

Campul ingalbenit al albastrelelor este o esarfa la
gatul unei femei bronzate ,
maica anului , culegatoarea de seminte.

Vantul de nord-vest soseste , iar galbenul este
zdrentuit de pale , noi minunate lucruri se arata
odata cu prima bura de zapada a vantului de nord-vest ,
caci lucrurile vechi se duc , nu dureaza.

 

Autumn Movement

de Carl Sandburg

I CRIED over beautiful things knowing no beautiful thing lasts.

The field of cornflower yellow is a scarf at the
neck of the copper sunburned woman, the
mother of the year, the taker of seeds.

The northwest wind comes and the yellow is
torn full of holes, new beautiful things come in
the first spit of snow on the northwest wind,
and the old things go, not one lasts.

The name - of it - is "Autumn"


de Emily Dickinson

The name - of it - is "Autumn" -
The hue - of it - is Blood -
An Artery - upon the Hill -
A Vein - along the Road -

Great Globules - in the Alleys -
And Oh, the Shower of Stain -
When Winds - upset the Basin -
And spill the Scarlet Rain -

It sprinkles Bonnets - far below -
It gathers ruddy Pools -
Then - eddies like a Rose - away -
Upon Vermilion Wheels -

Ode to Autumn

de John Keats

Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness,
Close bosom-friend of the maturing sun;
Conspiring with him how to load and bless
With fruit the vines that round the thatch-eves run;
To bend with apples the moss'd cottage-trees,
And fill all fruit with ripeness to the core;
To swell the gourd, and plump the hazel shells
With a sweet kernel; to set budding more,
And still more, later flowers for the bees,
Until they think warm days will never cease,
For Summer has o'er-brimm'd their clammy cells.

Who hath not seen thee oft amid thy store?
Sometimes whoever seeks abroad may find
Thee sitting careless on a granary floor,
Thy hair soft-lifted by the winnowing wind;
Or on a half-reap'd furrow sound asleep,
Drows'd with the fume of poppies, while thy hook
Spares the next swath and all its twined flowers:
And sometimes like a gleaner thou dost keep
Steady thy laden head across a brook;
Or by a cyder-press, with patient look,
Thou watchest the last oozings hours by hours.

Where are the songs of Spring? Ay, where are they?
Think not of them, thou hast thy music too,--
While barred clouds bloom the soft-dying day,
And touch the stubble-plains with rosy hue;
Then in a wailful choir the small gnats mourn
Among the river sallows, borne aloft
Or sinking as the light wind lives or dies;
And full-grown lambs loud bleat from hilly bourn;
Hedge-crickets sing; and now with treble soft
The red-breast whistles from a garden-croft;
And gathering swallows twitter in the skies.

Friday, 1 October 2010

Inaltare

As vrea sa ating cerul ,in imbratisarea muta a tineretii mele...
sa-i cant din strunele durerii adunate din aceasta lume ,poate l-as impresiona si-ar varsa pentru mine macar o singura lacrima care sa-mi ajute sufletul in inaltare..

Frig..sau fiori de frig si gheare reci.Pasii mei pierduti cauta urme pierdute in amintiri si ceata...Simt ca stau pe loc si asta ma nauceste.As vrea sa merg sau sa ma intorc ..nici eu nu stiu..

Dar vreau sa ma inalt sa uit pe-o clipa in vartejul timpului de imbratisarea mortii pamantene...Dar cu ce aripi?caci le simt frante pe veci.........

maya...1.10.2010

Tristete

                                                
                                                           cer stins
                                                             cenusiu
                                                    ma lasa sa-l ating
                                     si s-agat vise
                           intr-un rai
                               pustiu..


                                                         ingeri tristi
                                                     si ofiliti
                                                 strajuiesc a boltii poarta
                                                      insirand
                                                  clipele grele
                                                            ale
                                                                omenirii...

maya.sept.2010

Thursday, 30 September 2010

Teachings for your life – Invataturi pentru viata

Don’t let someone to become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life… Relationships work best when they are balanced
– Nu lasati pe nimeni sa va devina o prioritate in viata, atata timp cat pentru vietile lor reprezentati doar o optiune… Relatiile functioneaza cel mai bine atunci cand sunt echilibrate.

Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it, and the person who dislikes you won’t believe it. – Nu dati nimanui explicatii despre voi insiva.
-Deoarece aceia care va plac nu au nevoie de ele, iar aceia care nu va plac nu le vor da crezare.


When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come.
– Daca veti spune continuu ca sunteti ocupat, nu veti avea niciodata timp liber. Daca veti spune continuu ca nu aveti timp, nu veti avea niciodata. Daca veti spune mereu ca veti face un lucru “maine”, acel “maine” nu va veni niciodata pentru voi.


When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices: go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours.
– Dimineata, cand ne trezim, avem doua optiuni, simple: sa ne culcam inapoi si sa continuam sa visam, ori sa ne trezim de-a binelea si sa mergem sa implinim acele visuri. Alegerea va apartine.


We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, it’s strange but true; once you realise this, it’s never too late to change.
– Ii facem sa planga pe aceia carora le pasa de noi. Plangem pentru aceia carora niciodata nu le pasa de noi. Si ne pasa de cei care niciodata nu plang pentru noi. Acesta este adevarul, oricat de ciudat ar fi; odata ce ati inteles acest lucru, nu este niciodata prea tarziu sa il schimbati.


Don’t make promise when you are in joy. Don’t reply when you are in sad. Don’t take decision when you are angry. Think twice… act wise…
– Nu faceti promisiuni atunci cand sunteti veseli. Nu raspundeti atunci cand sunteti tristi. Nu luati decizii atunci cand sunteti suparati. Ganditi de doua ori… purtati-va cu intelepciune…


Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again. Enjoy every moment of life…
– Timpul este ca un rau. Nu poti atinge acelasi rau de doua ori, pentru ca suvoiul care a curs nu va curge o a doua oara, niciodata. Bucura-te de fiecare moment al vietii…

Friday, 13 August 2010

ان

لشاعرة rita

ان كنت تموت من كثرة الحب فسأبقى أقتلك بحبّي من الآن
الى ان تموت في حبّي أن كانت نظراتي تقتلك
فسأبقى أنظر اليك علّني أستطيع اضاءة عيوني
بالشمس التي تضيء طريقي
ان كانت ابتساماتي تقتلك سأبقى أبتسم
طالما أنت تبتسم …
وان كانت لمساتي تقتلك سأبقى أقتلك بها الى الأبد …

تأمل ام تخيل

للشاعر jamal

رأيت البحر كلمات .... و النجوم في السماء ساطعات
يجتاحها القمر بضوئه .... و عنوانه الباكي
هو السهر و الأمل ..... في عيون دامعات
هو الشوق و الحنين ..... و الحب المودوع الدامي

.......................

رأيت النار تبكي ..... بأم عين تحكي
رأيت الماء يغلي .... داخل صدري يسري
ألا و الله لتعبير ..... عن الغلغلة في روحي
الا و الله لرأفة ..... بقلب هدمه الحب الآتي

القول المليح في نهج بردة المديح

طالت ليلي النوى يا حيرة العلم
وصبرنا ضاق عن بحبوحة الألم
نيران أشوقنا أودت بمهجتنا
ودفعنا من لهيب الشوق كالديم
تمر أيامنا بالوجد مثقلة
ثقل الليالي تركن الجسم كالعدم
نسائل العيس إن مرت بساحتكم
عن المصلى وذات الشيح والسلم
ونسأل الركب إن مروا بروضتكم
عن النقا وضباء الجزع والرقم
قلوبنا هائمات في مرابعكم
بين العقيق وبين السفح والعلم
ونسمة الفجر تحيينا وتنعشنا
بنفحة القرب إن مرت بذي سلم
سقيا لأيامنا في سفح كاظمة
وطيب أنس الليالي في ربا إضم
رياض أنس بها للقلب منتجع
وللفؤاد نعيم غير منفصم
نود لوأننا في باب ساكنها
نعد في زمرة الللاجين والخدم
هو الحبيب الذي عمت نوائله
كل الخلائق من عرب ومن عجم
ساد الوجود فلا خلق يماثله
فالكون عن مثل خير الخلق في عقم
ومن يداني أبا الزهراء في شرف
ومن يباري أبا الزهراء في رهم
قد جاء بالدين يجلو كل مظلمة
والدين يجلو ظلام الغي واللمم
جلى شموس الهدى والحقّ ساطعة
حتى استضاء بنور الحقّ كل عمي
وقام بالشرع لا تخفى محجته
إلا على حاقد بالجهل متسم
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هو الذي خص بالإسراء معجزة
أعيت عقول ذوي الألباب والفهم
ونال من حضرة التقديس منزلة
جلت عن الوصف والتعبير بالقلم
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لما اقتدى بك رسل الله قاطبة
نوديت أنك خير الخلق كلهم
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فليست الأرض غابات ملاعبها
للوحش يأكل ما يلقى من النعم
لكنها روضة بالخير عامرة
نعمة الدين فيها أعظم النعم
وليس يعمرها إلا غطارفة
ساروا بنهج لغير الله لم يقم
باعوا نفوسهم لله خالصة
لا يبتغون سوى رضوانه القمم
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هم علمونا التقى من نشر سيرتهم
فالبر في الكون من آثار برهم
المجد مقتبس من طول همتهم
والعز ملتمس من طور عزهم
عليهم واردات الخير ماطرة
من حضرة القدس تندي مسك تربهم
يا ربنا خذ بأيدينا لمنهجهم
واجمع هوانا بشمل منك منتظم
واردد قلوبا عن الإيمان شاردة
وأنفسا في عمى عنه وفي صمم
واجعل لنا مددا في كل معترك
وكن لنا ناصرا في كل ملتحم
يا سيدي يا رسول الله يا سندي
يا من هواه بقلبي كامن ودمي
هذا مديحك لاتحصى فرائده
ومن يطيق مديح السيد الفهم
لكنه وجد قلب ثار ثائره
من حبكم فتبدى كل منكتم
ونفحة من نداكم طاف واردها
فعطرت بشذاها المنتقى كلمي
وشمة من خزامى روضكم عبقت
حيت فؤادي بعطر منك منتشم
وديمة منكم وطفاءها معة
أجرت بقلبي بحور الشعر والحكم
أطفى جوى كبد حرى بوابلها
ويرتوي كل قلب للمحب ظمي


أنتم حياة لنا نحيا بكم أبدا
كالجسم منا بغير الروح لم يقم
إني قصدت كرام الحيّ ملتمسا
طيب التنسم من آثار نشرهم
لعلي أمحو ذنوبا جمة عظمت
فقد تعلقت في أطراف ذيلهم
واستميح لدى الجلى شفاعتهم
فقد توسلت للمولى بوجههم
هم الكرام ولا يعدّ نوائلهم
مثلي وقد لذت في أكناف حيهم
عليهم صلوات الله دائمة
تعطر الكون من أنداء عطرهم
وألف ألف سلام كله أرج
يحي قلوب الورى من طيب عرفهم
ما هب ريح الصبا يهدي لنا خبرا
عنهم وما رنم الحادي بذكرهم
وما شدت جذلا من طيب سيرتهم
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Sunday, 1 August 2010

Floarea rosie

Într-o zi un baietel s-a dus la scoala. Baietelul era mic, iar scoala era mare. Dar când baietelul a vazut ca intrarea în clasa lui se facea printr-o usa direct din curte a fost foarte fericit… iar scoala nu i s-a mai parut atât de mare ca la început.

Într-o dimineata când baietelul se afla în clasa, profesoara le-a spus copiilor: “Astazi o sa facem un desen”. “Grozav”, a spus baietelul, caci îi placea foarte mult sa deseneze. Stia sa deseneze o multime de lucruri: lei si tigri, pui si vaci, trenulete si vapoare. Si si-a scos cutiuta cu creioane colorate si a început sa deseneze…

Dar profesoara a zis “Asteptati!”, “Nu începeti înca!”. Si a asteptat pâna când i s-a parut ca toti copiii sunt pregatiti. “Acum o sa desenam o floare”, a zis profesoara. “Grozav” s-a gândit baietelul, caci îi placea sa deseneze flori. Si a început sa deseneze flori frumoase, si le-a colorat în roz, portocaliu, albastru.

Dar profesoara le-a zis copiilor: “Asteptati, va voi arata eu cum sa colorati”. Si a desenat o floare rosie cu o tulpina verde. “Acum puteti începe!”, a zis profesoara. Baietelul a privit floarea profesoarei, apoi s-a uitat la floarea sa. A lui era mai frumoasa decât a profesoarei; dar n-a spus nimic. A întors doar pagina si a desenat o floare ca cea a profesoarei… Era rosie, cu o tulpina verde.

Într-o alta zi, când baietelul intrase în clasa prin usa din curte profesoara le-a spus copiilor: „Astazi o sa facem ceva din argila”. „Grozav”, a spus baietelul, caci îi placea sa lucreze cu argila. Stia sa faca tot felul de lucruri din argila: Serpi si oameni de zapada, elefanti si camioane. Dar a asteptat pâna ce toti copiii au fost gata.

„Acum o sa facem o farfurie”, a zis profesoara. „Grozav”, s-a gândit baietelul caci îi placea sa faca farfurii de toate formele si marimile. Si a început sa faca farfurii de toate formele si marimile. Dar profesoara le-a spus copiilor: „Asteptati, va arat eu cum se face!”. Si le-a aratat cum sa faca o farfurie adânca. „Asa! Acum puteti începe!”, a zis profesoara.

Baietelul s-a uitat la farfuria profesoarei si apoi la ale sale. Îi placeau mai mult farfuriile lui, decât farfuria adânca a profesoarei. Dar n-a spus nici un cuvânt. Si-a transformat farfuriile lui într-o bila mare de argila din care a facut o farfurie adânca si mare ca cea facuta de profesoara.

Si foarte curând baietelul a învatat sa astepte si sa priveasca si sa faca lucruri ca cele facute de profesoara, si foarte curând n-a mai facut nimic de unul singur.

Si s-a întâmplat într-o zi ca baietelul si familia lui s-au mutat într-o alta casa, într-un alt oras.

Si baietelul a trebuit sa mearga la scoala. Scoala cea noua era si mai mare si nu mai avea nici o usa prin care sa intre direct din curte în clasa lui. Trebuia sa urce niste trepte înalte si sa mearga de-a lungul unui coridor lung p âna ajungea în clasa lui.

În prima zi de scoala profesoara le-a zis copiilor: „Astazi o sa facem un desen!”.„Grozav”, a zis baietelul, si a asteptat sa-i spuna profesoara ce sa faca… Dar ea n-a zis nimic. S-a plimbat prin clasa. Când a ajuns lânga baietel i-a spus:
„Tu nu vrei sa desenezi?”.
„Ba da!”, a zis baietelul.
„Ce desen facem?”.
„Nu stiu pâna nu-l faci” a zis profesoara.
„Cum sa-l fac?” zise baietelul
„Cum îti place tie!” raspunse ea
„Sa-l colorez cum vreau eu?” a mai întrebat baietelul
„Cum vrei tu!”, a fost raspunsul ei.
„Daca toti ati face acelasi desen , si l-ati colora la fel cum sa stiu eu cine l-a facut?”
„Nu stiu!” zise baietelul
Si a început sa deseneze o floare rosie cu o tulpina verde…

Morala?

Creativitatea umana este un dar nepretuit. Iti aduci aminte de usurinta cu care puteai sa iti imaginezi jocuri cand erai copil, sau sa vezi in jucaria de carpe cea mai frumoasa papusa din lume?

Einstein spunea ca " Mintea intuitiva este un dar sacru iar mintea rationala este servitorul ei de incredere. Am creat o societate care onoreaza servitorul si a uitat darul. "

Cine spune ca floarea trebuie sa aiba petale rosii si frunze verzi? Puterea de a fi creativi este ceea ce ne defineste ca oameni, iar atunci cand vom fi inlantuiti in proceduri de lucru... nu ne vom diferentia prea mult de masinile care le-am construit.

Thursday, 22 July 2010

Psihologia inversa

Adesea ni se întîmplă să vrem să obţinem ceva de la cineva şi, după multe rugăminţi şi implorări, atunci cînd dorim să lăsăm totul baltă şi zicem: „Lasă că fac eu în locul tău, nu-i nimic, găsesc pe cineva mai bun ca tine!”, să vedem că, persoana acceptă să facă acest lucru.

În multe cazuri nu zîmbetul nostru strălucitor sau ochii dulci îşi fac efectul ci, insinuarea noastră la faptul că persoana respectivă nu e chiar unica din lume care ne-ar putea veni în ajutor sau ar putea îndeplini o anumită misiune.

Instinctul de auto-apărare, sentimentul de auto-realizare şi amorul propriu niciodată n-o să permită nimănui să accepte ideea că cineva este mai bun sau mai potrivit ca el, că cineva i-ar putea lua locul sau s-ar compara cu el. Fiecare om îşi are propriile principii de viaţă, reguli de conduită etc. şi nu poate fi flexibil chiar la toate circumstanţele, dar atunci cînd în joc este pusă demnitatea ( căci anume aceasta nu-i permite să se resemneze la cuvintele ” mai bun ca tine”), el găseşte ieşire din situaţie. Aşa zisul „atentat” la persoana sa, gîndul că cineva l-ar considera slab de fire, incapabil de a lua decizii, necompentent, laş , face ca persoana să se mobilizeze în doi timpi şi trei mişcări.

Această metodă merge la oricine, fie el copil, sau om mare. Spre exemplu: cel mic nu vrea nici în ruptul capului să-şi termine terciul. Ziceţii-i că, pe scara a treia locuieşte un alt băieţel care e bravo pentru că-şi mănîncă tot din farfurie şi, dacă el nu vrea să-şi ia porţia de vitamine, nu e nimic straşnic, îl veţi servi pe celălalt băieţel. Veţi vedea cum îşi va mînca toată porţia. Aţi cumpărat un şifonier nou şi, de o săptămînă îl tot bateţi pe soţ la cap să vi-l monteze. Ca printre altele, aduceţi-i la cunostinţă faptul că, vecinul d-ră e lăcătuş şi are toate cele necesare; las’ să nu se deranjaze, dragul de el...! Cu siguranţă, a doua zi vă va mai cumpăra încă un şifonier...:) doar nu va permite el să-l considere lumea leneş şi nepriceput!

Trebuie de urmat o singură regulă simplă atunci cînd apelăm la această ” tehnică”: nu criticaţi, nu înjosiţi şi nu numiţi cu cuvinte urîte pe nimei!.”Imbecilule”, „ Prostule”, „Derbedeule” sunt nu numai nepotrivite, ba chiar contraindicate. Ele doar o să sperie, o să intimideze şi, nicidecum, nu au să trezească dorinţa de a fi mai bun, de a demonstra de ce-i în stare.